A fun family trip to the Moolah Shrine Circus this past Saturday ended in a trip to the Pediatric ER.
The seemingly harmless pony ride at the circus turned out to be the most terrifying ride of our lives. It was set up like a carousel except with real ponies. The kids were very excited about getting to ride on ponies.
We made our way to the pony ride area after over 2 hours of spectacular performances by the circus dancers, tigers, elephants, motorcycle daredevils, monkeys, dogs, magicians, clowns, and acrobats.
Matthew was overflowing with joy watching the show, expressing his excitement with lots of hugs, flashing him his biggest smiles, and applauding with the crowd. Elizabeth was in awe of the elephants and applauding when applause was due too.
Before riding on the ponies, Matthew, his cousin, and friends wanted to get on the inflatable slide first. So we did that and they had a blast! Matthew went down the slide on his bottom twice and then decided he wanted to slide down head first the rest of the 3 minutes.
Then it was pony ride time. Bill walked next to Matthew and his pony. I walked next to Elizabeth's. We were right behind Bill and Matthew. One or two rounds into it, Elizabeth's walking pony suddenly turned into a bucking pony.
I remember seeing Elizabeth starting to tip the other way so I reached out to grab her. But before I could get a firm hold of her, the pony kicked me right above the knee. I think I was still trying to get to Elizabeth then I got kicked in the right lower jaw, stunning me and sending me to my bottom. Bill scooped up a very frightened, very upset Elizabeth right after the pony's hoof came into contact with her right arm.
My crying, but conscious, baby girl was then brought to a very shaken, shocked me. The arena floor or event manager(?) was trying to do his job to keep everyone else from panicking although Bill and I didn't care at all for how he was downplaying what had just happened.
I'm told that it all happened in maybe a quick 3 seconds, from when Elizabeth fell off the pony to when Bill got to her. It felt like an eternity, like it was all going in slow motion and I wasn't fast enough to catch Elizabeth.
I heard someone explaining that they saw Bill trip over a piece of carpeting that was not laying flat like it should have, and the pony Elizabeth was riding tripped over the same patch of carpet. That's when it started freaking out and bucking. I was still so shaken and in severe stress at that point. My hands were cold and clammy.
An on-site paramedic was talking to me and examining Elizabeth on my lap. I pointed out the bruise on Elizabeth's right arm and her two swollen fingers on her right hand. They checked if Elizabeth could move her arm up and down without severe pain. She could. They didn't even know about the huge lump on the back of her head until Bill pointed it out to them. At that point, I didn't trust that the on-site paramedic could do a decent job. I got out my phone and asked my sister-in-law to help me get a hold of Elizabeth's pediatrician. Elizabeth was starting to calm down.
We filled out an accident report at the Family Arena (circus venue) and drove to a Pediatric ER. The ER doctor also spoke to Elizabeth's pediatrician on the phone while we were there.
The report: The lump on the back of her head was due to the fall, not from the pony kicking. If it was from the pony, it would be the size of its hoof. Her arm is not broken. The hoof must have just grazed it enough to bruise as it came down on her arm. A hand x-ray showed that she had no broken bones in her right hand but her fingers had deep bruising, hence the purplish swelling. No severe injuries to her internal organs, except for a little bruise on her back. She has a thumb-size bruise on her left thigh. Keep an eye on her for vomitting episodes, which would be a sign of a concussion.
No vomitting overnight.
Two days have passed and Elizabeth is playing like her usual self. My arm and back are less sore but my knee is still bruised. I shudder everytime I think of what had happened. The pony nightmares will continue for a long time.
We am very thankful that we escaped with a few bumps and bruises and a scarred memory. I am thankful my 15-week pregnant belly wasn't kicked. It could've been so much worse.
No pony rides for us in the near future. When we asked Elizabeth about ponies after the incident, she says, "I cry." Bill is right though. We can't let her (or myself) have a fear of ponies or horses because of this incident. We'll gradually introduce ponies again in the future, starting in a more controlled setting.
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Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Matthew's Dr. Seuss Themed Birthday Party
A person's a person no matter how small. - Dr. Seuss
Dr. Seuss' books have become some of Matthew's favorites. His current favorite is "Green Eggs and Ham". He begs to listen to the audiobook almost everyday and he requests that it be read at naptime and bedtime everyday. He giggles and snickers as I read the story.
I think it's pretty funny too because when I read it, I feel like I am reading about Matthew exactly one year ago. He would not eat anything new or unfamiliar. Sometimes, he even rejected and refused to eat familiar and favorite food. He was on 3rd stage jarred baby food. He would NOT touch a pizza, burger, spaghetti, cake, and other food. It was only a few months after he turned 3, after he went to preschool where they helped me with "food therapy", and after we did more specific oral-motor exercises with him that he began to accept more food textures, tastes, and presentations.
He's still picky and suspicious about new food these days but he's not outrightly rejecting food or seemingly fearful of eating. These days he eats a wide variety of food including raisins, loves burgers, pickles, sweet potato fries, spaghetti, ice cream, and even leafy green salads with ranch dressing.
Hence, Dr. Seuss' Green Eggs and Ham was the perfect party theme to celebrate his 4th birthday, which was earlier this month. Balloons were blue and yellow, which are the colors for Down syndrome awareness.
We had a pull-string pinata. All the kids had a turn pulling a string to release all the little toys in the pinata until all the strings were gone. The pinata had to be torn open, but only after all the bigger kids got a chance at using karate chops and kicks on it.
I do so like green eggs and ham! Thank you! Thank you, Sam-I-Am! - Dr. Seuess
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Toy Review Tuesday: Corrugated Castle
This carboard coloring castle was a hit at Matthew's birthday party. Kids from 17 months through 13 years enjoyed playing in the castle.
What's not to love? It's a fun place for a game of Peek-a-boo. Kids don't get in trouble for writing or coloring on the walls with markers. It's a great set-up for pretend play.
It came in 8 pieces with instructions. One of Matthew's uncles put it together at the party.
After the party, it was taken apart for us to take home and I set it up at home for more coloring and hiding fun.
At this time, the corrugated castle costs $34.99 on amazon.com. It was totally worth it for the party.
Another option is to make one at home with large, sturdy shipping boxes. I had made one before deciding to get the castle. I cut out a door on opposite sides and a little peep hole on another side. The peep hole is Elizabeth's favorite. Matthew and Elizabeth (and our cat) have a blast crawling through it, hiding in it, with it at home but would be too boring and unlikely to hold up well at a party with 13 kids.
We also bought the corrugated house but didn't have enough time to set it up at the party. We'll save it for a future birthday.
What's not to love? It's a fun place for a game of Peek-a-boo. Kids don't get in trouble for writing or coloring on the walls with markers. It's a great set-up for pretend play.
It came in 8 pieces with instructions. One of Matthew's uncles put it together at the party.
After the party, it was taken apart for us to take home and I set it up at home for more coloring and hiding fun.
At this time, the corrugated castle costs $34.99 on amazon.com. It was totally worth it for the party.
Another option is to make one at home with large, sturdy shipping boxes. I had made one before deciding to get the castle. I cut out a door on opposite sides and a little peep hole on another side. The peep hole is Elizabeth's favorite. Matthew and Elizabeth (and our cat) have a blast crawling through it, hiding in it, with it at home but would be too boring and unlikely to hold up well at a party with 13 kids.
We also bought the corrugated house but didn't have enough time to set it up at the party. We'll save it for a future birthday.
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Happy 4th Birthday, Matthew!
Four years. Wow!
Just a couple months ago, I experienced one of the sweetest moments in my life. Matthew spontaneously said for the first time as I tucked him in bed, "Love you (3-second pause) so much!"
Today, he is 4.
Today, he continues to inspire many people.
Today is another step (or little trampoline jump) into tomorrow as he makes his way in this life, believing that he CAN!
Matthew, we love you (3-second pause) SOOOO much!
Just a couple months ago, I experienced one of the sweetest moments in my life. Matthew spontaneously said for the first time as I tucked him in bed, "Love you (3-second pause) so much!"
Today, he is 4.
Today, he continues to inspire many people.
Today is another step (or little trampoline jump) into tomorrow as he makes his way in this life, believing that he CAN!
Matthew, we love you (3-second pause) SOOOO much!
I believe(From the song "Wonder" by Natalie Merchant)
fate smiled at destiny.
Laughed as she came to my cradle
"Know this child will be able"
And laughed as my body she lifted
"Know this child will be gifted
with love, with patience and with faith."
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